Forum Whispers Forum — 15 Sep 2018
OPINION
As far as popularity is concerned, Narendra Modi is ahead. As far as business vision is concerned, Zenping - a shrewed politician - is ahead.
V Kumar
Worrying and proud fathers !
''My sons are so much blessed, proficient, and lucky in business that whatever they touch turns out to be gold, ''said a CM to his close friends. ''Bilkul ji, bilkul ji, pardhan mantri banange, ''The sycophancy orchestra, would tune in. Such talks of son-shines have been often heard in the country and the states for more than half a century. Even though, the entire world knew about the loot, plunder, dacoity, deceit, fraudestry, intimidation and blackmailing resorted to by such lucky and business savvy sons, but the all-knowing fathers would never even pretend to know of the dark side of the picture, even if those brilliant sons are beaten cats and dogs by the brave Army men for eve-teasing. Contrarily some fathers would never say good about their sons and look at only bad side.
Long time back, when I had joined the civil service in a very far off place from my home town Amritsar, I came across a meeting with two gentlemen, which is permanently engraved in my memory. My friend Kahan Singh (fictitious name) was district head of food and supplies department. He told me that his friend, who was a deputy secretary in the state government, would be coming to him, so I should also join them .That deputy secretary was a very well-known officer of the state government, so I was very keen and excited to be in his company. The very first sentence coming from his very composed face, in almost inaudible voice was, ''Your parents must be very lucky .'' He meant that since i had joined civil service ,so my parents were lucky. After usual pleasantries, he became more serious, which appeared to be part of his personality. My friend asked in chaste Punjabi, ''Saade bhatijyan da ki hall a (how are my nephews doing)? ''He was asking about his 4 sons .He turned his head near my friend's and very slowly said, ''Yaar kahan singh , ki dasan, chare e barhe nalaik ne , na parhde ne na likhde ne (frien kahan singh all the 4 are idiots not taking interest in studies''!).Though both were friends, kahan singh would very often address his friend as sir.''I have heard sir, they are very intelligent, ''kahan singh said with some anxiety. ''nahi yaar, wade ne hun BA kiti a sirf second division vich, baaki 3 v nalayak (no, my friend ,the eldest has passed BA in 2nd divisions, other 3 are also duffers),'' worrying father was saying in dejection." "Kahan, I know Food and Supplies Minister is very well known to you. Please get my eldest son recruited as sub-inspector in this department, so that my worries are reduced, ''said worrying father. ''But Sir, it is my humble submission that he should do post graduation, otherwise no difficulty in getting him this job'', said my friend. But deputy secretary sahib said, ''Set the ball rolling for his job.''
Four years later, my friend Kahan Singh met me in sector 17 market. He jubilantly announced that his nephew had got into the IAS in the first attempt. He reminded me of his deputy secretary friend ,whom I had met along with him long time back. ''Yaar, dekho, oh kehnde sann sub-inspector banwa de, te oh Indian Administrative Service vich aa gaya''. Dev Anand wanted to sit in ICS Exam, but his father rather suggested him to join some bank as Clerk. Dev Anand did not forget this incident and proved his legendary worth and talents. Once ,when my deputy commissioner, sent me to Chandigarh for some important work , I met the second handsome son of our worrying deputy secretary sahib. He was joint secretary in the PWD B&R department. I came to know that his other two sons had joined IRS, All the four sons reached the highest pedestals of their careers before retirement. I still feel that the proud father of these illustrious sons must still be worrying about them in heaven.
Surinderjit Singh Sandhu, Amritsar